Since a very very long time ago, and after the mix of cultures over many centuries, it's been decided that girls are weaker than guys in certain aspects, generally...and therefore!, girls can do lots of stuffs that guys can't do...like girls cry and guys must comfort them, girls can get hurt by some random stuff a guy said but a guy can't if a girl said something similar...but...somehow, i dunno how, we seem to forget that afterall, guys are still humans...and as long as we[guys] r human, we can oso bleed, internally and externally, get sad, get hurt and stuffs...人非圣贤，孰能不哭？。。。lols...i dunno i type correct or nt...but the meaning is there luh...correct?...只要是人，就必定有感情，会笑，会开心，会哭，会伤心，会难过，会流泪。。。因为人有了七情六欲。。。so girls...dun ever treat any relationship superficially...a guy being woo u, treat u good, doesn't comes naturally...and the most important thing?...A relationship takes both parties to work at it to keep it going...if u r just gonna let the guy work at it, making it difficult for him, he's just gonna leave u someday even though he might still love u...and dun cry when the day comes...and with regards to guys getting hurt, i tink some of u folks out there alr experienced it...right mei? ;)...